They don't (for the most part) actually want to be men. It's actually not a straight couple, but the lovely Stephanie Figarelle and Lela Mc Arthur tying the knot.
If anything, the butch-femme dynamic heterosexual relationship/gender models. Girly women aren't meant to want women who want to look like men.
As a butch woman I have a few things to say to all you wonder feminine women that love us. You make us feel loved, adored, and perfect just the way we are and that’s nice ☺ Too often our culture kicks the crap out of people who are different – who look different, act different, or speak different.
Butch women often do all of the above and pay the price for it. Second, while you show us lots of love, I want you to know that butch women need different types of love. We need to be able to unwind (especially after a busy day).
It means that you respect us and you want us to take care of you. For example, “Remember that time you surprised me flowers after I had a fight with my best friend?
I often wonder why a woman would want a butch or want to be a butch.
There's absolutely nothing that a little prosecco, some Adele, and the right stone butch can't fix. It sounds clichéd but I am truly blessed with butches who help me move apartments, make me feel like a princess by being chivalrous whether or not we are dating, …
Continue reading Today is International Butch Appreciation Day and the first thing that comes to mind is how grateful I am for the butches in my life.
They are sneered at by men, gawked at by straight women who clutch their purses when they walk by in a public restroom.
They are very used to being unwanted by society as a whole. They wonder if you will be ok with the flaws of their bodies. Being gentle and kind like the beautiful women you are is so attractive and does a lot to tear down those guarded walls.