Even if you are in a healthy relationship and would like to have sex with your partner, some beliefs or expectations might make this decision more complicated.
You may feel comfortable kissing or holding hands but not want to go any further. Deciding whether you want to have sex or when you should is a decision you should make when it feels right for YOU.In a healthy relationship, your partner respects your decisions, even if they don’t like them.If you are thinking about when to have sex, keep in mind: Having sex can raise the intensity of emotions that people feel for each other — whether you’re in a serious or casual relationship. What my flatmate does provide is an insight into the male psyche – in a way that no one you have sex with ever will. Despite sexual liberation happening before my generation was even born, this view is still kicking about, as articulated by a friend recently: "What do you call a key that opens all locks? What do you call a lock that can be opened by all keys? Despite my mother's friend referring to him as my "live in lover" – it sounds more glamorous than lodger apparently – this is not a Jackie Collins-esque set-up.